23 October 2008

Better to light a candle

... One day a tortoise will learn how to fly

Everyday life is saturated by traditions that most people perform without thought. Removing one's hat upon entering a building, placing flowers on a grave or candles on a birthday cake, even putting the fork on the left when setting a table--these are customs that people observe on a daily basis, usually without giving their actions any thought. Just, however, because people do not think about the rituals they perform or the traditions to which they subscribe does not mean that those traditions should be abolished. Each of these has a meaning and purpose which they do not loose just because people no longer think about them. In his book "The Thing--Why I am Catholic" Chesterton tells a parable of a gate approached by two reformers, the first of whom looks at it and says "I don't see the use of this; let us clear it away." The second, whom Chesterton calls the more intelligent reformer, replies "If you don't see the use of it, I certainly won't let you clear it away. Go away and think. Then, when you can come back and tell me that you do see the use of it, I may allow you to destroy it."

The same can be said about the traditions surrounding Halloween. Carving jack-o-lanterns, distributing candy, dressing in costume, there was a meaning behind the establishment of each of these and they should not be abolished until that meaning is remembered and understood. Because a knowledge of the origin of these things is not reflected in peoples current practise of them is not a reason to stop, nor, as Aloysha claims, does it turn them into nothing. Whether giving out candy on Halloween originated from grave offerings for the dead, from the tradition of providing strangers with hospitality or from something else entirely, the original meaning is honored whether people do so intentionally or not. And, perhaps more importantly in this day and age, there is something to be said about people performing rituals and practicing tradition whether they realise what they are doing or not. For, whether you bow or courtesy to the queen, genuflect before a tabernacle, watch fireworks on the 4th of July, or merely hold a door for a stranger, the point of rituals is to pay respect to something outside oneself and to put oneself in perspective of system larger than themselves--something modernity, with its emphasis on individuality and conflation of liberty and a complete lack of rules, tends to forget.

So the beauty of the day is in the traditions. The mystery of the Danse Macabre is that it was not a one time thing but rather happened regularly allowing everyone to participate. So, if Aloysha wants to attempt to be alive this Halloween he will attempt to carry out the traditions, but with the proper reflection about what those traditions mean and proper reverence to those they honor.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, the posts about Halloween are so helpful. I have such mixed feelings about Halloween right now, and it seems to me that the biggest problem with it is, as you say, that every significance of it has been stripped away. It has been completely absorbed by commercialism and the occult. That the response of many Christians is to shun Halloween unsettles me. Giving up Halloween to those anti-Christian forces is a loss for us of historical and religious sense. Instead of shunning it, Christians should be attempting to celebrate it in a way that reflects its history and religiousity (is that a word?). I, myself, am struggling to discover what a celebration of that kind would look like, but I feel strongly that Halloween should not be abandoned, but should be reclaimed.

Robert Owen Hood said...

I am glad you enjoyed the post! It is a tricky situation and our family has tried about every option when it comes to approaching it--doing an alternative All Saints day celebration, celebrating just like everyone else, and ignoring the day all together by doing an unrelated activity (indoor kickball was a favorite).

I feel like the fight to reclaim Halloween is the same one Catholics face when dealing with most other holidays as well-trying to make Christmas a meaningful celebration of Christ's birth rather than give into the consumerism that bombards us beginning the day after Thanksgiving, for example. But no one would suggest that the solution to that situation would be to stop celebrating Christmas. So I fully agree with you that Halloween should be reclaimed.

chrissyrudd said...

Nice blog! Very thoughtful! This will be my daughter's 3rd Halloween, but first time really participating in the fun. Last night our small community held a trick or treat night. Every time the doorbell rang, she leapt up and went bounding to the door in her princess dress and tiara yelling "Costume Party! Happy Halloween!" Seeing the joy on her face made it a truly blessed event, and God's love was evident in our family sharing in her happiness. It can be another time to celebrate and share our love for God and others.